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How to keep your children's drawings without keeping every piece of paper

It starts with one drawing.

You put it on the fridge.

Then another one comes home from nursery.

Then there's a painting.

Then a handprint.

Then a piece of paper containing three mysterious lines which, according to your child, is one of the most important things they have ever created.

Before long, there's a drawer.

Then a box.

Then several boxes.

And eventually you find yourself holding a crumpled picture of what may or may not be a dinosaur wondering whether throwing it away makes you a terrible parent.

It doesn't.

You don't have to keep every piece of paper to keep the memory attached to it.

Photographing your children's artwork and preserving a little of the story behind it can give you something far easier to keep — and, years from now, potentially much more meaningful.

Here's a simple way to do it.

Why is it so hard to throw children's drawings away?

Because you're not really attached to the paper.

You're attached to what the paper represents.

How small they were.

The way they drew people with enormous heads and tiny legs.

The first time they managed to write their own name.

The Mother's Day card with every other letter backwards.

The picture they proudly carried out of school and couldn't wait to show you.

Throwing away the physical object can somehow feel like throwing away a tiny piece of their childhood.

But those are two different things.

The piece of paper is the object.

The memory is everything around it.

You probably can't keep everything

Children can produce an astonishing amount of artwork.

Keeping absolutely everything might work for a while.

Over an entire childhood, it becomes much harder.

Paper gets damaged.

Paint flakes.

Boxes fill up.

Cupboards disappear beneath years of creations.

And the sheer volume can make it harder to appreciate the things that really are special.

So rather than asking:

"Should I keep this?"

Try asking:

"How do I want to remember this?"

Photograph the artwork before you let it go

The simplest answer is to photograph it.

You don't need specialist equipment.

Put the artwork somewhere with good natural light, hold your phone directly above it and take a clear photograph.

Try to avoid shadows across the page.

If the artwork is dated or has your child's name written on the back, photograph that too.

For three-dimensional crafts, take a couple of photographs from different angles.

You now have a digital version that doesn't require another box in the loft.

And yes.

You can throw away the original.

We won't tell them.

Don't just save the picture

This is the part that can turn a photograph of a drawing into a memory.

Write down a little context.

You don't need to write an essay.

Sometimes one sentence is enough.

"Apparently this is Daddy being chased by a dinosaur"

Imagine finding a photograph of one of your child's drawings twenty years from now.

The drawing is funny.

But underneath it you've written:

12 March 2026 — Age 5

"Apparently this is Daddy being chased by a dinosaur. I asked why I don't have any arms. She said she forgot."

Suddenly you've preserved more than the drawing.

You've preserved their explanation.

Their sense of humour.

The way they saw the world at five years old.

That's the part a folder full of anonymous image files can't necessarily give you.

Add a date — even if it isn't exact

Dates give childhood memories structure.

If you know exactly when something was created, great.

If you don't, don't let that stop you.

The month might be enough.

Or the year.

Or simply your child's age.

"Summer 2025 — Age 4" is much more useful than leaving the photograph without any context because you couldn't remember the precise Tuesday it was painted.

An approximate date is better than no date at all.

Keep some originals

Digitising children's artwork doesn't mean you have to throw everything away.

Some things deserve to stay.

Keep those.

The point isn't to remove every physical reminder of childhood from your house.

It's to make keeping the genuinely special things possible without also having to keep every worksheet, scribble and painted paper plate that ever crossed your front door.

Create a simple rule for what stays

Making the decision every single time can be exhausting.

A simple rule can help.

For example:

You could also keep one physical folder or memory box for each child.

When it's full, something has to come out before something new goes in.

That naturally forces you to keep the pieces that still feel important rather than allowing everything to accumulate indefinitely.

Let your child choose too

As children get older, ask them what they want to keep.

You might be surprised.

The picture you think is wonderful may mean absolutely nothing to them.

Meanwhile, the strange little drawing you were about to recycle may apparently be their masterpiece.

Let them choose some favourites.

You can photograph the others together before deciding what stays.

It can turn clearing the pile into something you do with them rather than something you secretly do after bedtime.

Save more than just drawings

Once you start doing this, you'll probably notice that children's artwork is only part of the story.

You can preserve:

These things capture parts of childhood that ordinary photographs sometimes miss.

Don't wait until you have ten years of artwork

You do not need to spend an entire weekend photographing every picture your child has ever created.

That is exactly how a nice idea becomes a job you avoid for another three years.

Start with what's arriving now.

The next time something comes home that makes you smile, photograph it before deciding where it goes.

Then perhaps tackle one old folder or box when you have time.

Twenty drawings preserved is better than planning to perfectly catalogue two thousand and never starting.

Make it part of their childhood story

Most photographs of childhood show what children looked like.

Their drawings show something different.

What they noticed.

What they imagined.

What they loved.

What frightened them.

Who mattered to them.

How they saw their family.

How their handwriting changed.

How a scribble slowly became a face, then a person, then an entire world with an extremely detailed backstory you were expected to understand immediately.

Seen individually, these things can look like pieces of paper.

Seen together over years, they become a record of a child growing up.

Use a timeline instead of a random photo folder

You can photograph children's artwork and simply keep the images in a folder.

That is already much easier than keeping mountains of paper.

But if you want those pictures to become part of a wider record of their childhood, you can organise them alongside the other memories from their life.

That's one of the ways All Of Your Days can be used.

You could add a photograph of a drawing to your child's private timeline on the day it was created, alongside their age and whatever they told you about it.

Over time, their artwork can sit alongside photographs, videos and written memories from the same period of their life.

Instead of finding "IMG_4827" years later, you can find the drawing in the context of when it actually happened.

Imagine looking through it in twenty years

One day, the stream of paintings and drawings coming into your house will stop.

There won't be another handprint picture.

There won't be another person drawn with legs coming directly out of their head.

There won't be another card covered in glitter that somehow continues appearing around the house for six months.

And the child who once proudly handed you those things will be grown up.

Imagine being able to look back through their childhood and see those creations appearing amongst everything else that was happening in their life.

Not every piece of paper.

Just enough to remember.

So yes, you can throw some of it away

Take the photograph.

Write down what they said.

Add their age.

Keep the really special originals.

Then recycle the rest without feeling guilty.

You're not throwing away their childhood.

You're choosing a more manageable way to preserve it.

And your cupboards will thank you.

Related reading: How to organise decades of family photographs

About All Of Your Days

All Of Your Days is a private place for families to preserve photos, videos and stories together, organised around the days they happened.

Create a private timeline for your child, add the memories you want to keep, and invite the people you trust to view or contribute.

From family photographs and videos to drawings, handwritten notes and the little stories you don't want to forget, it gives those memories somewhere to live together.

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